Anxiety
53 episodes
#6120: What Actually Helps When Sound Is Too Much
Misophonia and hyperacusis treatments are thin but not empty — and the ADHD sound-sensitivity gap is more interesting than it looks.
#5715: No Phone, No Panic: Safety Without Surveillance
A parent takes a kid out for hours, phone-free. When does check-in become care, and when does it become control?
#5449: The Neurotic Jew: Where the Stereotype Came From
The anxious, overthinking Jewish personality — where did it actually come from? The answer isn't what you'd expect.
#5370: The Spotlight Effect and the Heckler's Playbook
Why a waiting room feels scarier than a stage — and how performers handle hostile crowds without losing the room.
#5304: The Skill of Expecting Less (But Not the Worst)
Realists beat optimists and pessimists on long-term well-being. Here's what the research says about keeping expectations accurate.
#5201: Can You Gray Rock Without Losing Yourself?
Gray rocking protects you from a toxic person — but does practicing guardedness bleed into the rest of your life?
#5195: When Real Danger Silences Phobias
A year of war and housing crisis erased his cockroach phobia. The science says that's not as strange as it sounds.
#5192: Why Flying Fear Starts in Your Late Twenties
Sudden fear of flying in adulthood is common — and it's usually not about the plane at all. What the research says, and what actually helps.
#5074: Goals, ADHD, and the Art of the Soul Inventory
Why your goal tracking fails—and how to separate time-limited goals from lifelong values without the spreadsheet dread.
#4961: Can You Learn to Be Good at Small Talk?
Why "just be curious" fails anxious people — and what actually works for better conversations.
#4895: The Tuna Aisle Dilemma: Hypervigilant Prosociality Explained
Why staying with in-laws you like can still feel exhausting—and what to do about it.
#4853: What Happens in the Sleep Netherworld
Why you can feel awake all night while your brain is actually asleep — and why it feels worse than pulling an all-nighter.
#4480: The Doctor Visit You Can't Make: Health Anxiety's Hidden Trap
Why avoiding the doctor can be more dangerous than what you're afraid of finding.
#4260: Rewriting Trauma: Psychedelics and Memory Reconsolidation
How psilocybin, MDMA, and ibogaine may help rewrite traumatic memories at the neural level.
#4253: How Alcohol Quietly Rewires Fear Memories
The surprising neuroscience of why a drink can silence fear — and how that opens a door to better treatments.
#4127: Quarterly Preparedness: A 30-Minute Binder System
A family preparedness binder designed for 30-minute quarterly reviews, so you stay ready without the anxiety spiral.
#4118: When Thoughts Feel Like Facts: Ego-Syntonic Thinking Explained
Why some people can't see their own catastrophic thoughts as distortions — and what that means for therapy.
#4011: What Intermittent Jackhammer Noise Does to Your Brain
Unpredictable construction noise isn't just annoying—it triggers your threat-detection system in ways your brain can't adapt to.
#3971: Growing Up With a Cruel Parent's Worldview
How to unlearn a worldview where everyone is secretly hostile — installed before you had tools to question it.
#3935: Why 88% of People With Driving Anxiety Never Hear About VR Therapy
VR therapy for driving anxiety and occupational therapy for ADHD are proven and effective. Why has almost nobody heard of them?
#3927: How to Rewire Driving Fear in 10 Minutes
The science of why periodic drivers experience terror — and what to do about it.
#3923: Why Jerusalem Traffic Feels More Dangerous Than It Is
Why a confident Irish driver feels paralyzed behind the wheel in Jerusalem — and what the brain is actually doing.
#3872: What Everyone Gets Wrong About Fear of Heights
Are some people born without fear of heights? The surprising science behind acrophobia and the high-altitude workers of Jerusalem.
#3756: The Late-Phase Asthma Trap: How to Actually Escalate
Why you feel fine after smoke exposure, then crash hours later — and a practical 4-phase plan to stay safe.